Do all marriages performed during an auspicious time succeed? If a marriage is performed without an auspicious time, does it lead to failure? Is it appropriate to conduct weddings at “created” auspicious times when no traditional one is available? Many people have these questions. As of now, there has been no research on the outcome of such marriages. In our tradition, marriage is considered a sacred rite.

 An auspicious time is chosen so the marriage ceremony proceeds smoothly and the couple has a happy married life. During the ceremony, relatives and friends bless the bride and groom. Conducting the marriage ritual at an auspicious time is a matter of faith for many.

The Marriage Ritual

The stage of household life, or Grihasthashrama, is considered the highest among all stages of life. The worthiness of practising household duties is achieved through the marriage ritual. The Vivah Homa and Grih Praveshniya Homa are two primary rituals in marriage, as prescribed by ancient texts. The Vivah Homa includes rites such as the fire offering, Panigrahan (holding hands), Lajahom, circumambulation of fire, Ashmarohan, Saptapadi, and Dhruvadidarshan. The Grih Praveshniya Homa includes house entry, fire offering, advice to the bride, and prayers to deities. Other rituals like Punyahvachan, Nandi Shraddha, pavilion deity installation, betrothal, Seemant Puja, Airani Puja, and various other sacred ceremonies are also conducted.

Apart from these significant rituals, there are cultural ceremonies such as Akshata, Ghana Bharnye, engagement, turmeric application, Kelvan, Tel Sadi, Telphal, Rukhwat, Sunmukh, in-law’s feast, bridal bath, breaking of betel leaves, playing with colours, and waving of flags. Across India, marriage rituals vary according to customs and local traditions.

Auspicious Time (Muhurat)

The ancient text Vidya Madhaviya defines “muhurat” as “the time favourable for auspicious actions.” The Rigveda mentions performing ceremonies on “good days.” Specific rules are prescribed for determining auspicious timings for each event, with many regulations specifically for marriage muhurats, including exceptions.

The period from Ashadhi Ekadashi to Kartiki Ekadashi is known as Chaturmas, and no auspicious marriage timings are traditionally observed during these months. Chaturmas falls during the monsoon, when agricultural work is at its peak and travel is difficult. In unavoidable circumstances, some “created muhurats” are determined during Chaturmas to allow for weddings.

In many almanacks and calendars, auspicious marriage timings are provided.

Certain rituals like Panigrahan, Kanyadan, or Saptapadi are performed at these times. In Maharashtra, these auspicious times are usually during the day, whereas in some parts of Gujarat and northern India, they are observed at night.

Modern Changes

In today’s era, sometimes the auspicious timing is not strictly followed. Various factors, like the time required for bridal makeup or the groom’s procession, may delay the ritual. Some customs involve hoisting the bride and groom in celebration, leading to further delays. In some ceremonies, the bride enters the venue in a decorated palanquin to music, which may delay the timing.

Some grooms may delay the ceremony by visiting a temple on the way to the venue. Consequently, some venues have built temples within the premises for the groom’s worship.

Many people still give great importance to the auspicious timing. They perform all Vedic rituals in advance and exchange garlands at the auspicious moment, receiving blessings from friends and family.

Ultimately, the auspicious timing, enthusiasm, customs, and celebrations have gained prominence in weddings today. It is a significant family celebration and a meaningful ritual.

Balancing Faith and Practicality: Understanding the Significance of Muhurat

In India, the concept of Muhurat holds profound significance, blending spiritual beliefs with practical decision-making. A Muhurat is an auspicious time or moment deemed ideal for initiating important tasks, ceremonies, or milestones in life.

Rooted in Vedic astrology, specific time periods are believed to be more favourable for action when the planetary positions align to bring about positive outcomes.

In Hindu tradition, Muhurat is often consulted before significant events such as weddings, housewarmings (Griha Pravesh), business ventures, and even the beginning of new educational pursuits. It is said that performing activities during these auspicious times leads to success, prosperity, and peace, while ignoring them may invite obstacles.

However, balancing faith and practicality when considering a Muhurat can be challenging. In a modern world driven by schedules, deadlines, and practicality, the reliance on astrologically determined timings might seem outdated to some. For instance, delaying a critical business decision for a few hours or days to fit into a Muhurat might not always align with the fast-paced nature of today’s economy. Yet, for many, the spiritual belief in Muhurat offers comfort and assurance as a symbolic gesture of respect to tradition and the forces that guide our lives.

While Muhurat plays an essential role in personal and cultural practices, its true power lies in the belief and intention behind it.

 If one approaches an activity with sincerity, commitment, and the right mindset, the Muhurat reinforces these efforts. It serves as a reminder that aligning our actions with positive energy can enhance our focus and determination, whether or not we follow the time-tested formulas of astrology.

In this balance between faith and practicality, the ultimate takeaway is not the precise time or date but the deeper understanding that good intentions, careful planning and respect for tradition can lay the foundation for success in any endeavour. Whether you follow the auspicious Muhurat or not, the journey you embark on should always be one of purpose and positivity.