Most People in this world go through leading life without any plan or approach. If they are unsuccessful they put it down to fate, circumstances or God’s will. The life of 99 % of the worlds human beings can be summarized in one sentence. They were born they lived any they died. But it is not so for the other 1%.  They have really done something different and become successful at times changing history.

This 1% human beings have done in life what matters and done what works. Let us explore what plan, scheme or tactic they have used to become successful and different and not only have they become happy, but they have made this world a better place to live in.

To Start with, you have to get real. Honestly acknowledge your problems. This problem may not be important to others, but for you it will be very important. It is also quite possible that you do not know everything you need in order to get what you want. Try not to live in a fog of self deception, but deal with the truth. Try not to hide you problems, but rather to seek support to solve this problems. Also do not put problems aside because it is painful to deal with them.

First of all honestly evaluate what you are dealing with in your life. Evaluate it to such a level honestly that you will realize whether it is really working in your evaluation you will realize whether you need to change your life’s plan or methods that will lead your life purposefully. Remember it is never too late to make amends or changes. Also realize that you have got to do it yourself, nobody is going to do it understand the rules of the game of life, you are likely to run aground. Try to learn how to why you do want you do and don’t do. This knowledge will give you an enormous advantage over others in the competitation of life.

If you find that you are going in the wrong direction in life first you have to stop going in the wrong direction then search for the right direction. Realise that life is a journey, so if you don’t have a map and a plan and a timetable you will get lost. So have a plan chalked out, which is well thought, realistic and serious . The results wil be astounding. Remember knowledge is power, also lack of knowledge or relaince upon misinformation is harmful, dangerous and crippling.

Do not misdiagnose your probles. Ask yourself questions: did you trust someone wrongly, did you miss importatnt warming signals, did you choose the wrong time, did you fail to take needed action etc.

These question needed to be asked if by any chance you misdiagnose your problem and work out a plan or method that is fundamentally flawed. Do not indulge in negative self talk. Negative self talk means thinking negatively about oneself.  This creates obstacles which are mental blocks in your path to success and are harmfull.

You have to remember that when you are moving into a situation of change you will be doing new things or things that you have not done before. Initially these things will be alien to you but the will be part of your thought out and laid plan. Do not suspend good judgement or be reckless. Try to eliminate illogical behaviour. Remember illogical behaviour may give results that are harmful or detrimental. However be carefull in eliminating illogical behaviour that is if you perceive that the result would be beneficial then don’t eliminate it Analyse the benefits of your actions.

To find out the solution of any problem you have to define the problem correctly. Do not life to yourself, face the truth. As it is rightly said never life to your doctor or to your lawyer, changes this saying by adding never to lie to your self, a doctor or a lawyer. You have got a 50% percent solution to your problems if you do this. It is very difficult for most people to understand what is really happening to their life. Do not add to this difficulty by lying to yourself being native or gullible or by falling to acknowledge the truth.

When you follow the plan you have worked out you will get better result. You should have choices, if these are good your results will be good. Which means that if you do nothing you will get nothing. You will get rewards only if you take action. Remember the famous proverb. “As you sow, so shall you reap.” Try to know and understand that only with result can we be sure that the changes are real. Understand that other are going to read the result and measure you against these result. Hence you action should be purposeful. Be committed to do what it takes and you will have what you want. If you are a person who is constantly busy solving other peoples’ problems there is a danger here that your own problem remains neglected and they may never be solved. Try not a break commitments or agreements. If broken, you will invariably find that these are like hug walls in you path to success. Also beware of yourself putting obstables in your path by beings dishonest, unreal, fallacious or a mistrustful person. Try to do things differently understand that “Winners don’t do different things they do thing differently.”

The life you are managing is your own. Do it with purpose and honestly and knowledgably. Take time to identity those things that are a focus of your plan to changes and efforts. Know that the best resources available to changes your life is you.

Also since life is imperfect it may be that out of all decisions you make some may not be winners. In such a case you have to make the decision right. Have the ability to forgive, learn to rise over feeling of hatred pain, jealously resentment and ego. When you do good to others you will also be reciprocated by the good done by other. Having feelings of hatred, anger etc in you will definitely contaminates the quality of your emotional life.

Have a focused and flexible thinking. When your goal is know intinately to you will definitely feel it when you approach it. Also you will be aware if you veer off the course from your goal. The strategy for success in your life should contain the following elements. Your path to success will be lighted by these.

  1. Vision
  2. Strategy
  3. Passion
  4. Truth
  5. Flexibility & Focus
  6. Ability to take the right risk.
  7. Action
  8. Priority
  9. Self Management

Try to incorporate all these mantras in your life plan. You will be in that list of one percent which me talked about in the beginning.

Do not forget now it’s your time and now it’s your turn. Get real and go ahead.